The Community We Lost

Book Description:

The Community We Lost is a heartfelt journey through time, memory, and meaning-told through the eyes of someone who grew up in 1970s Detroit, when neighborhoods felt like family and the streetlights signaled more than just the end of playtime.

Blending personal storytelling with cultural commentary, this powerful account of vignettes captures the warmth and vibrancy of a time when neighbors looked out for one another, children played freely in the streets, and the entire block came together to support families in need. Through vivid recollections of rent parties, jump rope battles, backyard barbecues, and front porch wisdom, the author paints a portrait of what true community once looked like-and why it mattered.

But this isn't just a nostalgic look back. The Community We Lost also examines the forces that unraveled these close-knit bonds: economic shifts, systemic inequality, the drug epidemic, and the rise of technology that drew people indoors and away from one another. It explores the emotional and economic costs of disconnection, and how modern tools like GoFundMe, while helpful, often lack the soul and spirit of real human connection.

In its final chapters, the book issues a stirring call to action-for individuals, nonprofits, businesses, governments, and philanthropists-to help reimagine and rebuild a new kind of community rooted in care, shared responsibility, and collective well-being. This book is perfect for book clubs, community interest groups, associations, and any other group where discussions can help bring people together.

Deeply personal, timely, and inspiring, The Community We Lost is both a love letter to the past and a roadmap for the future. It reminds us that while we may have lost something precious, we still have the power to find it again-one open heart, one neighbor, one connection at a time.