The Screen Between Us

What happens when the person you love begins choosing a screen over your relationship?

At first, the change is subtle.

The phone flips over when you walk into the room.

Late nights become longer and quieter.

Conversations become shorter and colder.

And when you ask questions, you're told nothing is wrong.

You're told you're imagining things.

You're told you're overreacting.

Eventually, you're told that you are the problem.

But deep down, you know something has changed.

In The Screen Between Us, Twyla Spinelli shares the painful and eye-opening reality of living beside a partner consumed by porn addiction. Through honest storytelling and powerful reflection, she exposes the emotional toll of secrecy, gaslighting, blame, and the quiet erosion of self-worth that many women experience but struggle to explain.

This book is not just about addiction.

It's about what happens to the person standing beside it.

Inside these pages you will discover:

The hidden signs porn addiction is affecting your relationship
How blame and gaslighting can make you question your own reality

Why porn addiction creates damaging comparison and emotional distance

How to reclaim your voice after months or years of silence

The steps toward rebuilding self-worth and choosing yourself again

If you have ever felt like you were competing with a screen for the attention of the person you love, this book will help you understand why.

More importantly, it will remind you of something many women forget during the chaos of addiction and denial:

You were never the problem.